It’s so simple you can start putting it into action immediately.But first things first, it’s important we cover the core principles of pickup that form the foundation to all of this. If you prefer video learning we recommend this video: (It’s the best way to master pickup in a short space of time) Ok lets get started! Unless you want to get rudely rejected, start with welcoming environments that allow natural conversation to flow – cafes, bars, clubs, house parties, sports events, and shopping centres are all great locations to find women to talk to. If you can pick up girls in bars and clubs there’s no reason you can’t get a girls number whilst ordering a flat white on your morning commute to work.If you want to learn how to pick up girls, you’ve just hit the jackpot.This group interview is chock full of expert advice from 32 of planet earth’s best dating coaches and pickup artists.As obvious as some may seem, it’s easy to forget when you’re in the moment: But if a girl’s investment in the conversation is low – she’s not laughing at your jokes or giving you her full attention, then it’s probably best to end the conversation and walk away. It’s better to cut the conversation short than drag it out. Say “It was great bumping into you, but I have to get going…. it’d be cool to meet up again sometime” Never leave the interaction empty handed.The ultimate goal of pick up is to ‘close the deal’ in whatever shape or form that may be.

If she replies to your question with “I’m heading to London”, try and think up something interesting or witty to say about London in reply. Another example is to reply to a serious question with a stupid answer.

Now it’s time to give you a step-by-step breakdown of the process for picking up a girl. In the time it takes to think up a clever pickup line, you’ll probably miss the golden opportunity to approach. An example of a situational opener (if it’s cold outside) would be saying something like “Where did you get that amazing coat? The aim of the opener is simply is simply to grab her attention. Start with “Excuse me” if you approach a girl in the daytime. You’ll be able to tell in a matter of seconds if your personalities click.

We’ll start with the approach and end with how you exchanging numbers. If you can’t think of anything to say on the spot, a simple “Hey” or “Hey, hows it going? Women don’t expect to be chatted up during their daily routines. So there is no need to straight up interogate a girl on her hobbies and interests in the hope of finding a connection.

Just like we all hate to be harassed by street sellers and charity collectors, observational awareness is important. By transferring over your positive emotions she’ll feel relaxed and enjoy the moment too. Slowww everything right dowwwn, speak up to get her attention, and don’t mumble. Women are perceptive creatures and will smell a ‘fake’ a mile away. Radiate the positive qualities you possess because self assurance is sexy. Telling a girl you’re a dolphin trainer by day and a black-belt Muay Thai fighter by night will inevitably have repercussions.

If you interrupt someone in a fluster, don’t be surprised if you get face palmed. Women are primarily attracted to social power and confidence over everything. So if you can learn to handle this pressure, and brazenly approach women like it’s no biggy, you are 90% of the way over the finish line. And it’s not necessarily what you say, it’s more about your delivery. To open up your body language – smile, hold a wide stance, and turn your body to face her when talking. If you end up dating and realising she’s your dream girl, you’re gonna have to fess up… As confusing as gender roles appear to be in 2017, one thing with dating remains unchanged – it’s the man’s job to make the first move.